More information

First,

In a previous post, I mentioned that complications from my surgery led to a particular temporary solution (see https://fahmeenaodetta.blogspot.com/2024/01/health-update.html). Here is some more information:

The solution is a "barely there" solution. It is usually flat and not noticeable under clothes. It is sealed so that there is no smell. When it is time to remove, it comes off with little effort. There may be a problem if it gets too wet (while bathing swimming etc). 

I wish I had been more prepared. I got used to it and made adjustments as necessary. I like to use a towel to clean (wash) and dry the area.

No one should think that I am a dirty, smelly person because of the "solution." I bathe regularly to be clean.

Second,

Some people seem to think I am gay (a lesbian). I am not gay. I was never married. I would like to get married.

Third,

I was a shy, quiet child. I am a lot more outgoing now. Some things I do for fun: go to the movies, go shopping, enjoy nature (such as sit by the lake). I am fairly conservative.